So when you give her a call, what would be the best words to start the conversation?

Just One Phrase

Hi, How Was Your Day?

Why? Well, because that shows you care about her when you ask how her way went. It also acts as a starting point where she will elaborate more on her day went. This way, you will also learn more about her, what she likes, what she hates etc.

Do put your effort to LISTEN to her and do NOT disrupt her for no reason. That does not mean you dont even speak a words, so do response to her from time to time. This will enhance your communication.

Try it for your self next time you are on the phone with a girl or a guy. Ask her gently

Hey girl, How Was Your Day?